Not dwelling on it is the medicine
Mahabharata, Shanti Parva (Narada to Shuka)- Worry
- Grief
- Discernment
Dwelling on what is lost adds a second sorrow to the first. The medicine for sorrow is not to keep thinking of it. Thought about, sorrow does not leave, it grows. Meet the mind's pain with understanding and the body's with medicine.
- Narada
भैषज्यमेतद्दुःखस्य यदेतन्नानुचिन्तयेत् / चिन्त्यमानं हि न व्येति भूयश्चापि प्रवर्धते दुःखोपघाते शारीरे मानसे चाप्युपस्थिते / यस्मिन्न शक्यते कर्तुं यत्नस्तन्नानुचिन्तयेत्
bhaiṣajyametadduḥkhasya yadetannānucintayet / cintyamānaṃ hi na vyeti bhūyaścāpi pravardhate duḥkhopaghāte śārīre mānase cāpyupasthite / yasminna śakyate kartuṃ yatnastannānucintayet
When pain of body or mind arrives and nothing can be done about it, do not keep thinking about it. Not dwelling on it is the medicine for sorrow; brooding does not make it leave, it only makes it grow.
Mahabharata · Shanti Parva · Bhishma, Mokshadharma
- Narada
प्रज्ञया मानसं दुःखं हन्याच्छारीरमौषधैः / एतद्विज्ञानमसामर्थ्यं न बालैः समतामियात्
prajñayā mānasaṃ duḥkhaṃ hanyācchārīramauṣadhaiḥ / etadvijñānamasāmarthyaṃ na bālaiḥ samatāmiyāt
Heal the pain of the mind with wisdom and the pain of the body with medicine. That is what knowledge can do; don't behave like a child about it.
Mahabharata · Shanti Parva · Bhishma: Mokshadharma
- Narada
न जानपदिकं दुःखमेकः शोचितुमर्हति / अशोचन्प्रतिकुर्वीत यदि पश्येदुपक्रमम्
na jānapadikaṃ duḥkhamekaḥ śocitumarhati / aśocanpratikurvīta yadi paśyedupakramam
No one should sit alone grieving over a trouble that has struck everyone. Instead of grieving, act to remedy it if you see a way.
Mahabharata · Shanti Parva · Bhishma, Mokshadharma