शीतोष्णसुखदुःखेषु समः सङ्गविवर्जितः ॥
One who is equal to enemy and friend, honor and dishonor, heat and cold, pleasure and pain, and is free from attachment is dear to Me.
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“Real devotion stays even when life feels hostile or kind.”
One who is equal to enemy and friend, honor and dishonor, heat and cold, pleasure and pain, and is free from attachment is dear to Me.
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Read literallyequal · to enemy · and · to friend · and · likewise · in honor and dishonor · in cold and heat, pleasure and pain · equal · free from attachment
A devoted person stays steady through praise and blame, comfort and discomfort, friendship and hostility, without clinging to either side.
Krishna speaks this verse, on the battlefield of Kurukshetra, in the chapter titled "Bhakti Yoga" (The Yoga of Devotion).
Verse 18 sits in Chapter 12 of the Bhagavad Gita — Bhakti Yoga, "The Yoga of Devotion". The chapter has 20 verses in total.
A message lands as criticism, then another person praises you five minutes later. Your mood swings with both. This verse trains you to stay unchanged when attention turns warm or cold.
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It shifts attention from emotional reactions to steady presence under changing treatment.
What this verse means
A devoted person stays steady through praise and blame, comfort and discomfort, friendship and hostility, without clinging to either side.
Context & commentary
Krishna is still describing the devotee Arjuna should become. After listing inner qualities in the battlefield crisis, he adds one more test: the beloved devotee does not wobble under praise, insult, comfort, or pain.
Why this verse still matters
A message lands as criticism, then another person praises you five minutes later. Your mood swings with both. This verse trains you to stay unchanged when attention turns warm or cold.
“You can stay open and calm without needing life to treat you kindly.”
Explore related themes: bhakti (69 verses), equanimity (23 verses), attachment (20 verses)